Over the past few weeks we have had a number of catch up moments. I noticed when writing our Christmas cards in December that a few of our friends hadn't received the attention they deserved from us the past year. It highlighted for me the need to 'do it different' this year. To be a bit more alert and pay more attention to those people who brighten our world and add colour to our lives- in their own unique way.
What played a part in this 'neglect' was definitely the over full diary we had - the shift, the trip to my children, the visit from overseas, the new routines, distance and the a few small health odds and sods. So it wasn't a lazy excuse but more a 'too much of one thing and not enough of the other'.
We have finally found our feet, have a few less BIG THINGS lined up and feel more relaxed. Our routines more settled and our commitments less stressful. Time then, to restructure and refocus on what is important.
Friendships - such an important part of life in general. People needing people. Having a place to go to share your story, being privy to other people's stories, sharing memories or making new ones. Enjoying a glass of wine or sharing a meal - a coffee time visit or a walk in the park.
I am aware that it isn't the amount of time one spends with friends - but the level of enjoyment and support one can give or receive.
What recently was meant to be a quick cuppa - turned into 4 hours of sharing and unburdening.
When we arrived for a snack - it turned into a 3 course meal.
A short call to say 'hello' was a heaven sent break in a sad day.
The walk in the park - was a treat of nature at it's best ( and a healthy red nose to boot)
The need for more stamps meant that there are letterboxes received fun mail instead of just bills.
I know it is an unrealistic task to think we can meet up with all those in our 'little black book'. But I do know we can do our utmost to share moments - and make room for those wanting to 'be' with us, for whatever reason.
I aim to mend my ways in 2016 and hopefully I will be able to say - I am pleased and proud of our efforts this year.
Our friends are the treasures in our life.
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ReplyDeleteWell, I hope things go better for you this year !!
Yes, friends are definitely a treasure. We used to say that we didn't really have friends we spent time with. But, now it is the complete opposite. Some of this is a result from having kids.
Hello Bryce, funny while I was writing the blog I thought of you- yes I neglected you too for a while - along with many others. Here's gunning for a better 2016. Yes, children don't only bring their own sheer but add so much more to the lives of families.
DeleteI agree, friends are great treasures. That includes the online ones we've met through blogging and social media. :) I have been thinking about friendships lately, so this post is timely. Thanks for sharing your insight!
ReplyDeleteIndeed Karen- my circle of friends- has indeed been enriched by my blogging friends near and far. Thank you for being one of them!
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